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Amy Yates's avatar

This is so fucking where my mind is at right now. Thanks for putting the words out there

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Yes. Underneath all the faces of crisis is the simple question of happiness. Properly happy people don’t need to consume excessively to feed hungry ghosts, they don’t need to project their insecurities as far away as possible, or give away their power to take care of themselves to the unscrupulous few willing to take it from them.

What makes a human happy, in a long term sustainable sense? Basic needs being met is certainly a prerequisite – but one can be in prison and have most of that provided. And most people, most of the time, aren’t motivated (and aren’t voting or otherwise politically engaged) purely because of hunger, shelter warmth, etc, but by a much more complex mixture of drives. The deepest natures of which – emotional, psychological, spiritual, ecological – are kept invisible, so most people don’t even know they have them, so they are kept confused, and feeling deeply lacking somewhere in the soul, and not able to see the conceptual magic that hides even the possibility of this. A sense of self that has been cultivated to assume a certain powerlessness and vulnerability. All intermingled with the more concrete and measurable lacks and needs.

Meaning and belonging and self-determination are all closely related. The positive feedback loop of putting physical bodily effort directly into producing one’s own food, and taking care of one’s own environment, with others, and the feelings that helps create of interdependence across personal, generational, and species boundaries, of no longer feeling vulnerable to or dependent for one’s survival upon the vagaries of vastly complex systems of economics or even just food production that are sensitive to the whims of psychopaths, and that one knows harm ones own environment... these are prerequisites for happiness!

We know how much nature helps. We know how much healthy community interaction and healthy culture help. We know how to build these things – deep in our bones, for they are parts of being human we carried through all the billions of years of becoming us and have only started to forget pretty recently.

So let’s remember to focus on the here and now and cultivate radical happiness. Through each person’s own happiness, we offer those we meet the knowledge that it is available to them too. Hey, maybe we even have just a little capacity to welcome others on board. Word of mouth is always the most effective marketing.

I’m also not sure the message of happiness needs or can even that effectively be delivered by mass media, or memes, or any of that technology, because that all is at root such a large part of the system delivering fear and scarcity into our imaginations and bodies, used to influence and control, through addiction to drama. They come from and grew out of capitalism – like so much of the world’s culture that we have to be brave enough to prepare to let go of. Those channels are specifically designed to soften us into the weak consumers who prop up the capitalist pyramid. Perhaps those channels can help spread the message – but my feeling is that inasmuch as they are designed to steal our attention (perhaps our greatest gift), it’s best to return as much of our focus as possible to our physical here and now, and let the digital take care of itself somewhat. Or at least use those channels to keep reminding people to get off them.

It is radical to say no to that manufactured addiction to drama. It is radical to be patient and trust, to return to cycles of growth that are rooted in the embodied present, yet extend and intertwine in every direction – as Tyson Yunkaporta said, the seeds we plant now won’t be old-growth forests for 1000 years.

Cultivate patience, and peace, and understand that so much of the conditioning that has been put into our bodies is to rush, to react, to run away from fear, to steal from tomorrow. I’m not saying do nothing or don’t move fast to do what’s necessary right now – just that to master one’s own adrenal response, and the cycles of panic and anger and burn-out, is really vital. (Part of that peace might be to know that you are able to defend yourself, your people, your space physically – know that you are safe and that you can overcome challenges. Learn martial arts. Walk with your head high).

Yes, do everything needed to organise practically, at all levels of the political spectrum (at least where it feels efficacious or necessary). And at the same time make sure there is a strong focus on happiness at the heart of everything – and not just one’s own happiness, but that of one’s neighbours, and children, and children’s children, unto many generations 

To be real, to look this reality in the face, and yet to be happy, is not only possible, but perhaps a duty. This is not an easy path. But it allows the imagination to be free, and gosh, with more humans with free imaginations around, well, anything’s possible...

❤️

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